Ever had those days when nothing goes your way? Sure you have. Those are the days when you grab you hair by the roots and scream: ‘this shouldn’t be happening!!’
You try to force the outcome or wrestle the problem to the ground because you believe you should be able to work it out. Right? Well…maybe not.
At the end of the day, the only real control you have is over how you react to your situation. When you fight against what is going on, you suffer big time. On the other hand, when you let go and say ‘this is what it is’, amazing things can happen.
It turns out that when you take your rampaging ego away from the equation and say: ‘I don’t have to figure it out right now’, you actually have more control than you ever did before! This article I found goes into the problem in more detail. Read the full article here.