Because let’s face it: Negative talk is contagious!
Most people go through life completely unaware of just how much time and energy they spend talking about what they don’t like.
Engaging in complaining, gossiping and bitching is a surefire way to create misery in your life and the lives of those around you
The words you speak every day slowly but surely create your beliefs; and your subconscious brings everything that supports your beliefs into your direct awareness. In other words, your beliefs create your reality.
Complaining is like eating too much chocolate cake; it feels good at the time, but leaves you with a belly-ache later on, in the form of negative thought patterns and ultimately, unwanted behaviour.
Why We Love To Complain
It’s much easier to tell a funny story about something that went wrong than one where everything went as planned.
Also, we tend to relate to others’ misery far more than being inclined to celebrate someone’s success.
It can be annoying listening to someone drone on about their perfect kids or their great holiday, and at the end of the day, no-one likes a bragger.
Many people subconsciously downplay the positive elements of their lives in favour of complaining, because, in a nutshell, ‘misery loves company’.
You can break the cycle of complaining using these affirmations I wrote. They’ll help you:
- Stop complaining, gossiping and backbiting
- Pay attention to the positive aspects of your life;
- Become a kinder person;
- Be happier!
If you commit to repeating these affirmations daily, you’ll start to notice the changes I’ve mentioned above, and you’ll feel much better in general…about everything. The less you find you complain about, the more positive experiences you will attract into your life.
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